SOCIAL BATTERYWORLD

Nicki Renford smiling

Hi, I’m Nicki.

Welcome to Social Battery World — a space where I share my journey, my book, and the things I’ve learned about being differently wired, in the hope it helps you understand yourself too.

My journey.
Your self-discovery.

Social Battery Unplugged book cover by Nicki Renford

The book

Do you live in a constant state of social survival?

Where socialising feels overwhelming almost from the moment it begins? You desperately need to escape, but feel trapped by the fear of people discovering the real you?

Through her story, Nicki shares the experiences, struggles and discoveries that helped her make sense of her differences—and begin to embrace them.

It's time to unplug from other people's expectations, let go of the pressure to be someone you're not, and reconnect with yourself.

“Your social battery never seems to fully recharge.”

But why?

Reader love

Lovely things readers have said about the book.

I wanted this part of the page to feel like little notes passed back after reading — honest, heartfelt and full of connection.

Five-star reader love
Truly unputdownable.Amazon reader review
Honest, engaging and truly insightful.Amazon reader review
A must read!Verified Amazon review
Warmth, courage and honesty.Amazon reader review
I laughed out loud and was moved to tears.Amazon reader review
Thoroughly recommended.Amazon reader review
“A deeply honest book”“This book had me gripped from the very first chapter”“So truly relatable”
little bursts of reader love, dotted all around ✨
Nicki Renford — author of Social Battery Unplugged

The person behind the drained battery

Hi, I’m Nicki!

I’m an author, educator and Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND) professional based in the North West of England. I’m proudly neurodivergent, and I’m passionate about helping people better understand ADHD, autism, sensory differences and, most importantly, themselves.

For years, I found myself wondering what was wrong with me. Why did things that seemed so easy for other people feel so difficult for me? Why did I feel so different? I spent so much time trying to change parts of myself, without realising that what I really needed was to understand them.

That journey of questioning, discovering and finally beginning to embrace the way I’m wired is what inspired me to write Social Battery Unplugged: My Journey, Your Self Discovery.

Through honest storytelling, a little humour and plenty of hindsight, I’m sharing my experiences, struggles and lightbulb moments in the hope that my journey might help you make sense of your own. Because sometimes, hearing someone else’s story is exactly what we need to start understanding ours.

Being different doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you.

When I’m not writing or working in education, you’ll find me at home with my husband, our two boys and our much-loved dog. ❤️